Nibe kuphela ukuthatha umntwana njengokuba omnye umntu ukuba ufaka ndivuma atshate okanye kwi-i-ebhalisiweyo lwahlulelwano I-suitability ye-udibanisa ababonisi base abazali ngu assessed phambi kokuba ifumane igunya na ukuthatha umntwana Baya kufuneka isiqinisekiso ukuba banako jonga emva kokuba umntwana elide, kwaye bayakwazi ukubonelela kwaye azise phezulu umntwanaUkuba umntwana ngu capable ka-forming i-imbono (idla kwi age of), lowo okanye yena iimfuno ukunika imvume ukuba umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho. Ngesiqhelo, ngaphandle kokuba umntwana ngu ngokusemthethweni olahliweyo, abazali kufuneka kanjalo uyavuma ukuba umntwana wabo ke umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho. Nangona kunjalo, imvume unako kuphela kunikwa xa umntwana ngu kwiiveki ezintandathu ubudala Imvume zibe waived ukuba omnye okanye bobabini abazali bamele engaziwayo zabo whereabouts zithe engaziwayo kuba ngaphezu kweminyaka emibini ingaba ngokusisigxina incapable ka-imvume okanye ukuba omnye okanye bobabini abazali abanalo ithathwe efanelekileyo care umntwana. Ifayile isicelo sakho kuba umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho kunye central igunya kuba umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho yakho canton ka-yokuhlala.
