Alimony unako sizathu kuwe ezinzima-mali strain
Ekubeni ngokutsha owodwa kwaye ekubeni omnye kuphela ingeniso kuthetha ukuba anayithathela sele kokuba wenze ebig utshintsho yakho ngenyanga lwabiwo-mali kwaye ukuzonwabisa
Abanye abantu babe ukwenza into sneaky, njenge devise clever izicwangciso ukufumana jikelele strain ukuba alimony wenza kwi yabo yezimali.
Nangona kunjalo, tempting njengoko le inokuba, kubalulekile ukuba ngaba indlela mba ngenkathalo, nkxalabo, neendlela zokuziphatha. Ngale ndlela, uyakwazi uphephe na isemthethweni ramifications enokuthi ngenxa ukusuka uzama ukuphepha yakho kamsinya kuba ex-mlingane. Umbuzo kukuba, ungakwazi njani ngokusemthethweni uphephe handing phezu loads imali yakho eks nganye rhoqo ngenyanga. Ezi zilandelayo zezinye ithoba tactics ungasebenzisa ukugcina nangaphezulu imali earn - uphephe ukubhatala alimony. Eyona ndlela phumani ukwenza alimony intlawulo yi-ukuphepha kufuneka ibenze kwindawo yokuqala. Abaninzi couples ukuba ufune enye opt ukukhusela ngokwabo yi-drafting phezulu prenuptial sivumelwano phambi umtshato lwenziwa isemthethweni. Olu xwebhu kuquka epheleleyo yaziswe ngamnye umntu ke ingeniso. Luquka impahla yexabiso ukuba ngamnye mlingane uya kwenza i-union. Ngolu hlobo, uxwebhu ibeka ngaphandle kanye kanye apho marital ipropati ngowethu ngaye. Oku ezikhethekileyo uxwebhu kufuneka zilungiswe yi-igqwetha lakho ke samkelwe ngumlawuli ijaji phambi somtshato. Ukuba abazange ukuba ukwenza oku phambi yokufumana watshata, musa worry.
A postnuptial isivumelwano iqulathe uninzi efanayo ulwazi ufumane kwi prenuptial sivumelwano, kodwa igqityiwe kwaye wenza zokugqibela emva umtshato ngu finalized.
Ukuba wokuqhawula umtshato sele yakho kwixesha elizayo, ezi zimbini iinketho iya kuba akukho sebenzisa kuwe.
Uyakwazi endaweni cinga creative iindlela ukugcina iqabane lakho uvuma ngaphandle kufuneka enze alimony intlawulo.
Xa uthetha-thethwano zenzeke, cinga umnikelo kwabo elikhulu share ka-marital impahla yexabiso, inkulu bala ka-umhlalaphantsi-akhawunti, okanye nkqu marital ekhaya. Ngokwenza oku, nibe gcina ngokwakho ukusuka ekubeni ukwenza alimony intlawulo.
Kuba ngokuqinisekileyo ukugcina i-vula umgca we unxibelelwano phakathi ngokwakho kwaye iqabane lakho. Ukuba indlela, uza kufumana i-edge kwi imeko nje qiniseka ukuba ufumane uncedo a mayuda okanye lamagqwetha abo baya uncedo bayathetha enobulungisa kwamafama.
Mali isixa intlawulo, ngamanye amaxesha kuthiwa buyouts, mali isixa alimony, okanye spousal isondlo buyout, intlawulo alimony kwindawo enye mali isixa. Endaweni yokufuna amaxesha ngamaxesha intlawulo eyenziwe phezu libeke ixesha isakhelo, mlingane kwi kokufumana end bunikwe enye enkulu intlawulo. Oku kungenziwa ukwimo imali isixa mali intlawulo, okanye nge-marital ipropati uphinda-phindo. Ngendlela imali mali isixa, mlingane ukubhatala i-alimony uza kubhala omnye ukukhangela yonke imali lowo okanye yena uya tyala ukuba dependent lowo utshate naye. Kwi-marital ipropati uphinda-phindo, omnye umntu agrees kwi zinika phezulu inxalenye na impahla yexabiso baya anelungelo phezu yabo mlingane kwi-lieu ka-ukubhatala alimony. Ukuba ukhetha ukuthatha le route, cinga izinto ezimbalwa phambi na izigqibo zenzelwe. Ngokomzekelo, cinga indlela oku kuya kuchaphazela yakho irhafu. Kwi, irhafu neeyantlukwano zikho kuba unyango ka-mali isixa alimony intlawulo versus intlawulo ye alimony made ngokuhamba kwexesha. Thetha i-accountant kuba eyona ulwazi malunga imeko yakho.
Uyakwazi ukwenza efanayo uxwebhu nkqu emva wedding iphezu
Xa iyonke ixabiso i-mali isixa alimony payout iya kuba ngaphantsi kune iyonke onqwenela ukufumana amaxesha ngamaxesha ukusuka intlawulo. Ingaba uza ufumanise isidima le mbasa Ngaphaya koko, amaxesha ngamaxesha intlawulo zibe lumisiwe emva iqabane lakho isa ngo ebalulekileyo enye okanye efumana remarried. Cinga zonke angles phambi kokwenza esi sigqibo. Imithetho malunga ukubhatala alimony vary ukusuka urhulumente state. Nkqu ngezi variants, abaninzi musa ukuvumela abangathembekanga amaqabane ukuba vie kuba alimony intlawulo. Oku ke kufuna ngaphezu yakho ilizwi ibonisa ukuba iqabane lakho waba abangathembekanga ngexesha somtshato.
Kufuneka banike lo mthwalo ka-ubungqina.
Oku kunokuba kuza ukwimo ebonisa iifoto kwaye ividiyo ukuba yenkundla iqabane lakho. Kufuneka ufumane waqala ngoko nangoko kwi-ukuqokelela ubungqina zonyaka kunye nayiphi na enye incriminating ubungqina ungacinga ukuba ibonisa ukuba iqabane lakho waba undoubtedly ekubeni i-affair. Umgwebi iya kuba yokugqibela kuthi malunga nokuba ngaba okanye hayi yakho ubungqina counts njengokuba ubungqina ukuxhasa namabango ukrexezo, kwaye njani uya kuchaphazela na alimony intlawulo. Ngaba anayithathela kusenokwenzeka ukuba sele zenziwe abanye enkulu utshintsho ukukhanya kwakho umtshato.
Kubalulekile rare ukuba phezulu-wamkela lowo utshate naye uza kunikwa alimony intlawulo, ngoko ke lixesha elihle kuba ukuba cinga nje yimalini imali ngokwenene kufuneka iquke inkcitho yakho nyanga nganye.
Ukuba ufuna earn ngaphezu iqabane lakho, kubalulekile kusenokwenzeka ukuba uza kuba noxanduva ukwenza alimony intlawulo. Ukuphepha le mali conundrum, cinga downgrading - thoba ukubhatala umsebenzi, umzekelo, babe indlela. Downsize ingeniso yakho uze uphile lean. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ngenyameko isicwangciso-mali indlela yakho ngokuthi, kodwa kancinci umsebenzi uncedo oluvela abahlobo kunye mali gurus uza ngaphandle kwenu ezininzi headache malunga alimony. Yakho mo ingaba ke ukugqiba isixa-mali alimony ukuba ulingane akahlawuli. Nangona kunjalo, omnye umbandela ukuba states rhoqo cinga ngu yayo yonke ubude umtshato. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ixesha umntu kwi-mtshato, ngakumbi kusenokwenzeka ukuba kubalulekile ukuba uza kuba faced kunye ephakamileyo alimony intlawulo. Ukuba uyazazi umtshato ayikho ke yokugqibela, cinga ukuphelisa oko njengoko kamsinya kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Stretching ngayo ngaphandle ixesha elide nje kuthetha okungakumbi yeemvakalelo zakho intlungu elide lasting alimony intlawulo. Abanye states uza kuyiphelisa ukwenza alimony intlawulo inkqubo esisinyanzelo xa mlingane ngubani ukufumana kwabo iqala abaphila ne omtsha iqabane lakho okanye ezibalulekileyo enye.
Oku ulwazi ibe ngu kwi-esilungileyo shicilela kwi kwakho umtshato ummiselo buza igqwetha lakho ukuya phezu icandelo malunga alimony intlawulo kunye nani kuba eyona ulwazi.
Omtsha umtshato ukholisa kuvumela intlawulo kwenzeka nokuphela, ngoko ke ukugcina irekhodi into yakho ex-mlingane ngu ukuya kwi-xa oko kuza yabo budlelwane nabanye.
Gcina ii-tab kwi kwabo nge loluntu media kwaye ngokusebenzisa abahlobo.
Qinisekisa ukuba ingaba ngobukho xa ezi ubomi utshintsho kwenzeka ukuba ke uyakwazi ukufumana ezo alimony intlawulo yekani. Emva wokuqhawula umtshato, mlingane babe bakhetha ukuhlala njengokuba homemaker okanye ukuhlala-e-ekhaya umzali, nkqu nokuba lo wenza-mali hardship okanye akanguye anamashumi kuyimfuneko. Ukuba iqabane lakho yi educated kwaye ingaba lwezakhono ukuze ufumane umsebenzi ukuba akahlawuli kulungile, uyakwazi buza ijaji ukwenza vocational nokuhlola. Kubalulekile i-eyona njongo assessment enika wena kunye elithetha kwi ntoni na iqabane lakho unako okunokwenzeka earn xa uthatha umsebenzi kwiingingqi zabo yolwazi nezakhono. Nkqu ukuba umsebenzi ayifumaneki ngexesha sihamba inkundla, alimony babe ngxi kuba ilungisiwe kwi yethutyana qho. Le ingu preferable ukuba intlawulo ukuba ingaba ekhutshwe kwi elide qho ngonyaka okanye ngokungathanga ngqo. Ubungqina khumbula ukuba iqabane lakho babe nje kufuneka abanye isithuba ngeli lixa umsebenzi ukufumana kwi iinyawo zabo, nokuseka kwezabo khaya, fumana umsebenzi ukuba akahlawuli kulungile, kwaye bafunde njani ukuze siphile kwi kwezabo kwakhona. Elifutshane alimony intlawulo kuya kunceda nabo enye kwaye ufumane nabo kwi - ilungelo icala ngokukhawuleza, ingakumbi ukuba bathabatha ixesha ngaphandle ukuba care kuba abantwana okanye kukunceda ukuqhubela phambili eyakho career. Amanye amaqabane abo bamele ngokulula ekubeni vindictive kufuna ukuba afumane alimony intlawulo, nkqu ukuba babe musa kufuneka imali ukugcina zabo esezantsi ye ophilayo. Umzekelo, ingaba yakho eks ukukelela enkulu olukhawulezileyo lwemali sum, njenge trust fund okanye stock portfolio. Ingaba baya kufumana ilifa okanye savings-akhawunti. Ukuba kunjalo, nabo ekubeni unemployed akavumelekanga ukuba kuchaphazela zabo akunakho transition ukuba enye ukuzonwabisa. Yakho eks akavumelekanga ukuba nkqu kufuneka i-alimony intlawulo ukwenza oku ukuzonwabisa tshintsha. Qiniseka ukuba aphande ukuba ngaba mhlawumbi iqabane lakho sele nayiphi na impahla zabo egameni ukuba ingaba gcina kwenu ukususela ekubeni ukwenza alimony intlawulo. Ukwenza oku, usenokuba nomdla hire a elinolwazi forensic accountant ukunceda ukuba irekhodi phantsi le-asethi okanye impahla yexabiso. Ngexesha accountants ngokuqinisekileyo kwentlawulo a premium kuba iinkonzo zabo, yakho avoidance ka-lengthy kwaye costly alimony imirhumo iya kuba kulungile kukunceda kakhulu ixabiso. Ukuba iqabane lakho ayikho awarded sole custody ye-abantwana, bangabi nako kufuneka imali evela alimony intlawulo. Ukukhathalela abantwana kuthetha ukuba unengxaki significantly kakhulu iindleko ophilayo.
Ethabatha kude mali uxanduva zokunikeza care kuba abantwana benu babe nje thoba isixa-mali imali ukuba luyafuneka ngeqabane lakho ukugcina abo abahlala esezantsi.
Sibe nje nika iqabane lakho le ithuba ukufumana zabo footing kwi kwezabo ngokomthetho yabo yezimali - ngaphandle uncedo ka-alimony intlawulo. Yakho eks ayisayi kufuneka enye imali, kwaye uza nciphisa isixa-mali alimony uyakwazi kukubonelela nge ekubeni sole caregiver kuba yakho abantwana. Uza ubuso obukhulu iindleko njenge daycare, groceries, imfundo, kwaye iimpahla kwi-ukubhatala kuba abantwana, nto leyo iza sika kweyakho expendable ingeniso. Abanye abantwana kuba ezikhethekileyo iimfuno, okanye ngokuqhubekayo inkcitho njenge diapers, doctor utyelelo, okanye tutoring. Iindleko ezinxulumene ne-ukukhulisa umntwana okanye abantwana babe nje aphelise yakho nako ukuhlawula alimony ngokupheleleyo. Kwezinye iimeko, iqabane lakho babe nkqu kunikwa umyalelo ukwenza umntwana inkxaso intlawulo ukuba unako ukunceda zikhathalele iindleko ezinxulumene ne-ukukhathalela kwaye ukukhulisa umfana umntwana. Qiniseka ukuba ngenyameko cinga ukuba uyakwazi kuba sole caregiver kuba abantwana benu. Umele ungaze sebenzisa obu buchule njengokuba uthetha ukuphepha ukubhatala alimony okanye ukufumana umntwana inkxaso monies ukusuka iqabane lakho. Alimony intlawulo musa kufuneka ibe lifelong affair. Kufuneka ndivuma kakhulu cinga kubandakanywa termination umhla kwi kwakho umtshato nommiselo okanye kwesi sivumelwano. Oku kuza susa kufuneka kubuyela inkundla ngesicelo ngomnye umhla, ukugcina kwenu ukususela kunyaka-mali mthwalo. I-intlawulo iya ngokulula aphelise End yeeprogram elifutshane marriages ikholisa enye nesiqingatha ubude bexesha kwizakhiwo. Kubalulekile kakhulu harder ukuba ukuqikelela ixesha i-alimony termination umhla kwi umtshato ukuba waba lengthier, nangona kunjalo. Kufuneka athethe kunye umtshutshisi ukubona yintoni impendula xa sidibanise into end umhla izakuba amanyathelo afanelekileyo kuba imeko yakho, enikwe ixesha kwaye umntu iimeko zakho umtshato. Osisigxina alimony babe ngxi kuba ilungisiwe yi-umgwebi ngexesha kwakho umtshato finalization. Kubalulekile idla ekhutshwe xa mlingane lacks isakhono inkxaso kwabo ngenxa extenuating iimeko, ezifana ubudala okanye abakhubazekileyo. Kukho izinto ezimbalwa okulungileyo iindlela ukuphepha ukubhatala alimony. Ngabo bonke isemthethweni kwaye ethical, ngokucacileyo eyona indlela bathabathe kule meko. Asikuko kuphela lula kwindlela yakho miyalelo, kodwa uza kuba ngokwenza ilungelo yi-iinkundla, kakhulu. Ukuze ufumane jikelele ukwenza ezi intlawulo, nibe unqwenela ukusebenzisa enye ingcali izicwangciso-lixoxiwe apha endaweni yokusebenzisa i-risky indlela, njenge spontaneously iyaphuma yakho yomsebenzi okanye, worse, filing kuba bankruptcy. Le into ebalulekileyo kukuba lumka kwaye ukuba yonke into esebenzisa ngenyameko. Kufuneka ube ethanda ukuncama izinto ebomini bakho ukugcina imali yakho kukufutshane ukuba wena kude yakho ex-mlingane.
Cinga ukwenza naluphi na utshintsho kuwe ukuwahlawulela ukwenza. Downsize ubomi bakho Isicelo umsebenzi ngexesha inkampani yakho ukuba akahlawuli ngaphantsi.
Kwaye, njengoko kusoloko, thetha neqabane lakho lamagqwetha kuba ezingaphezulu uncedo kwaye isikhokelo.
